When life throws you a curve ball

Well, late night reminiscing about the normal deep bedtime thoughts.

Boys, career, travel, dreams, and mistakes.

Who would we be without them?

I’ve done some messed up shit but I’ve truly learned that you’re going to have a thumb and index finger full of people you can honestly count on.after you start trying to grab a handful, the nuts usually slip out of your grasp.

No that wasn’t a dirty reference .

Really though, I love few, dislike a couple, and only hate when I still haven’t found a reason to respect those that have honestly hurt on purpose.

Good night, and think about it.

Best friend, a significant other (for some) and parents(again, for some) are all you’ll ever need to stumble through life’s inclines.

Appreciate what you have, strive for what you don’t, and never stop believing in yourself. Only then will you find true happiness.

At least that what I believe for now.

Sweet dreams,

J.

Nice guys

You ever meet an actual nice guy? Doesn’t make fun of anybody, teases everyone in such a way that they cant help but smile & feel special, the nice guy who can upkeep a conversation with anybody and who stands up for his friends.

These nice guys are what every girl says they want,until they have him. He’s too nice, or too safe and bitches just have to go looking for trouble.

“It’s not you it’s me”was never so true in this case, yet when said to a nice guy, they automatically place the blame on themselves.

What does this do to them? Makes them even more obscure and everyone they’re the perfect ideal man for a girl, they get hurt and the blame grows and hangs over them like a dark cloud.

I just had to get that out:) lady’s, smarten up. Men don’t always be to be more of an asshole, sometimes you need to be less of a bitch.

Ps. This is first hand exp. And when I stopped being a shallow heartless fool I found one of these nice guys when I wasnt looking.

So nice guys: stay genuine
Ladies: If you dig deep enough they have a little risk and danger in them too, only difference? They won’t break your heart like assholes, sex gets better & you learn how to laugh again. For real.

Nice guys rock.

Sincerely,

A Huge fan.